So many Toys so little Alone Time

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Phthalate Free means what to me?

Upgrade is the new remodel, or facelift of our times. Everything is upgraded, there are so many apps and alterations, personalization's and designs, I easily forget what G's we are on.... except of course if it is the G. We are advancing in momentous leaps and bounds. Technology and the bedroom make a Delicious duo that ultimately has the sole purpose of meeting and exceeding every naughty need. remote mini bullets and i-vibes, let that special someone miles away control your pleasure, lube that is designed to mingle for ultimate mixing, and most importantly, safe materials. This is where phthalate comes in, it is the chemical used to make PVC soft and pliable. The dilemma is, this insidious little mixture does not bind to the pvc so it can leech out into you! Yuck, I absorb enough junk, sugar, coffee, smog, voluntarily I don't think I want to ad chemicals to my sexlife.

So my bedroom enhancement divas it is our job to demand quality products we can trust for our most demanding hungers and vulnerable places. I am not saying to go vegan with your pleasure aids but I for one want to limit the pollution here, I may not be a green goddess but I am goddess enough to know I don't want that!!!

Tie me up Tie me down

For all of you lovely luscious people who adore a little drama in the bedroom, a slow start into BDSM is a tasty way to spice up your night. I always thought that I was oh so risque whenever I was tied or my lover was tied to the bedpost. I am not entirely sure how this came about but last night I was tied to my curtain rod with my own panties as a gag. Although I am no stranger to Bondage, Domination, Sado, masochism, my freaky darlings it is addictive!!!!! My skin still tingles at the very thought of it all. My cloths were cut from me, the sharp steel was cold and just enough of scary. I was then blindfolded. Music played heavy and dark. I felt the softness of leather before the whip slapped against my skin. It stung in just the right way, clawing,, biting, whips, slaps, rough, skilled, clever hands combined pain and pleasure like food and salt. I had found these delightful candles that are also lotion and oooooohhhhh was that a treat. I know it was very very light but it was delicious fun. I love being a little afraid when there is nothing to truly be afraid of. I may get into more detail, a small how to for beginners in bondage but for now I am going to fondle the welts on my arms and thighs and think of how just a little spice makes the meal. Kisses to all and steamy thoughts RR