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Romantic without being presumtuous

There are times when you just know you are getting laid. You change the sheets, set out some oil, maybe some chocolate and wine, when she lays eyes on all the work you have done she sneers at you and says something like.... "Think you were getting some?" well yeah........ not the right answer. So here are a few little gems for those who have the "hard to get" game going with their lover. Candles, but not just any candles.... these are cleverly disguised as every day candles, when really they are massage oil and pheromones hidden by a clever packaging. Smile, light one, sit back and chat, then dip a finger in the wax, let her/him feel how nice the smooth oil is..... it should be a naked massage session in no time. Enjoy!!!!

So many Toys so little Alone Time

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Phthalate Free means what to me?

Upgrade is the new remodel, or facelift of our times. Everything is upgraded, there are so many apps and alterations, personalization's and designs, I easily forget what G's we are on.... except of course if it is the G. We are advancing in momentous leaps and bounds. Technology and the bedroom make a Delicious duo that ultimately has the sole purpose of meeting and exceeding every naughty need. remote mini bullets and i-vibes, let that special someone miles away control your pleasure, lube that is designed to mingle for ultimate mixing, and most importantly, safe materials. This is where phthalate comes in, it is the chemical used to make PVC soft and pliable. The dilemma is, this insidious little mixture does not bind to the pvc so it can leech out into you! Yuck, I absorb enough junk, sugar, coffee, smog, voluntarily I don't think I want to ad chemicals to my sexlife.

So my bedroom enhancement divas it is our job to demand quality products we can trust for our most demanding hungers and vulnerable places. I am not saying to go vegan with your pleasure aids but I for one want to limit the pollution here, I may not be a green goddess but I am goddess enough to know I don't want that!!!

Tie me up Tie me down

For all of you lovely luscious people who adore a little drama in the bedroom, a slow start into BDSM is a tasty way to spice up your night. I always thought that I was oh so risque whenever I was tied or my lover was tied to the bedpost. I am not entirely sure how this came about but last night I was tied to my curtain rod with my own panties as a gag. Although I am no stranger to Bondage, Domination, Sado, masochism, my freaky darlings it is addictive!!!!! My skin still tingles at the very thought of it all. My cloths were cut from me, the sharp steel was cold and just enough of scary. I was then blindfolded. Music played heavy and dark. I felt the softness of leather before the whip slapped against my skin. It stung in just the right way, clawing,, biting, whips, slaps, rough, skilled, clever hands combined pain and pleasure like food and salt. I had found these delightful candles that are also lotion and oooooohhhhh was that a treat. I know it was very very light but it was delicious fun. I love being a little afraid when there is nothing to truly be afraid of. I may get into more detail, a small how to for beginners in bondage but for now I am going to fondle the welts on my arms and thighs and think of how just a little spice makes the meal. Kisses to all and steamy thoughts RR

Just for fun

We have been talking or typing, whatever, about solo nights, but that gives the impression that toys are for lonely harassed woman who don't like guys, don't have a guy, or can't get a guy, or ***gasp**** their guy does not please them, this is totally a misconception. Just for fun I bought a remote control bullet. It is this cute little tampon looking hot pink vibe. The remote is 30ft. Again it sounds like something for solo use, not so. I gave the power of the remote to my guy, thinking it would be fun to let him have control.

All the commercials and infomercials claim this little darlin will take you to over the top orgasms.......... well as far as I am concerned, they lied. This devil of a device got me to the edge and stopped, to the edge and stopped over and over until I thought I would cry. We were having a nice normal day, it was so much easier to talk to people I don't normally like when I have this delightfully vibrating secret. Cheerful to the point of scary, oh and the giggles, no one warns you that these things come with giggles. However as the day progressed hour after hour and no release I got very cranky, to the point that shy quite little me pulled my car over in a little camping area, and ravaged my guy. I mean broke the seat, ripped his cloths, may have drawn blood, ravaged. To say it was intense is an understatement. It was fun for him in a controlling kind of way but for me it was torture ending in explosive Ecstasy. These should come with a warning label may cause sexual frustration and ravaging.

7 Solo Nights Part 3

Dark deliciousness
Valla is the most detail oriented career minded person I know. That is until she is off work, then it is dark eye liner, 6 inch black boot heels and ity bity tank tops that show off risqué tattoos.

Valla: Give me rich thick blackness. Silk and satin with a little velvet for texture. I want leather, lace and just a touch of pain. This takes trust and imagination so who better to fulfill my wants than myself? I want it dark, if there is no-one’s eyes to fall into I want all my senses on full alert. I have the most beautiful and decadent glass vibe that is just for special occasions. Heavy metal, pounding base and rough manly voices, a glass piece straight from the fridge and no light at all, that is my solo night. I stretch out on black silk sheets, not a glimmer relieves the blackness, and the music is all around, pounding in my head, heart and blood. My lovely glass piece is just a little too cold. “Sex without pain is like food without salt” All senses are heightened, the heat of the room, the slide and slip of the sheets, cold vibrating glass and cinnamon all sharp and wonderfully erotic. That is my solo night.